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Evolving into a better person!
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Written by Johanus Haidner
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Wednesday, 06 January 2010 16:38 |
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I know this list isn't original, and I don't know where it came from. It's been floating around the internet for a while now, as this isn't the first time I've seen it. I do like a lot of what is in here and the message that is conveyed, so i'm sharing it... 1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. 4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch. 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it. 9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 12. It's OK to let your children see you cry. 13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks. 16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. 17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.. 18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 22. Over prepare, then go with the flow. 23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 24. No one is in charge of your happiness but you. 25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ''In five years, will this matter?". 26. Always choose life. 27. Forgive everyone everything. 28. What other people think of you is none of your business. 29. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time. 30. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 31. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 32. Believe in miracles. 33. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. 34. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now. 35. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. 36. Your children get only one childhood. 37. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. 38. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 39. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 40. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 41. The best is yet to come. 42. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 43. Yield. 44. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift. I think number 37 is my favourite! Happy New Year!
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Critical Thinking is Part of Personal Development |
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Written by Johanus Haidner
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Wednesday, 09 December 2009 17:36 |
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Development is more than simply lerning to understand our emotions or how we operate in the world, it is also about doing our best to develop within the world itself. This means attempting to understand our environment and our effects and interactions with it. It also means being able to critically analyze that which surrounds us, whether it be some theory or belief, or the way that someone has acted and the motivations behind that action. Our critical thinking helps us not only to develop as individuals, but that influence helps us to develop as a race. Deep thought and trying to truly understand the world helps us all get ahead! There's a great movie, which is free to watch or download, that explains critical thinking called "Here be Dragons". I think everyone should see this, so I've included the link here: http://herebedragonsmovie.com/ Enjoy!
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Hiding Who You Really Are |
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Written by Johanus Haidner
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Sunday, 11 October 2009 05:52 |
The Difficulty in Revealing the Truth of One’s Inner Self
What face do most people reveal to the world? Shakespeare once said that all of the world’s a stage. And this has been shown to be true, as we are each actors with a thousand faces. Every relationship we have, each friendship, each acquaintance, each passing stranger, allows us to show a different facet of who we are. And with each person we are someone slightly different.
What face does one show to professional colleagues? Always there is a distance there, a certain amount of stoic professionalism. And this distance protects against… what? It seems that in professional situations people are very distant; no-one wants to reveal the inner parts of themselves. True emotions are forbidden, real passion reveals too much. And so there are barriers. And the act will continue for all time.
When we are first in relationships with potential romantic partners we also hold back. The faces we reveal slowly become more and more of our real inner selves – but it takes quite some time. Are there some people who still act, never fully revealing all facets of their inner self? Imagine how it is when two people split up. Divorce is a very real part of our world. And when this happens, then people reveal parts of themselves that they may not have before. Sadly, the deepest parts of our beings only come out when we are in crisis or conflict. Revealing our joys is simple. The rest is a problem for most people.
Should we reveal these parts of ourselves to those closest to us?
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Last Updated on Sunday, 11 October 2009 05:58 |
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The Evolving Species and Personal Growth |
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Written by Johanus Haidner
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Thursday, 12 November 2009 11:39 |
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"The human species is the only species that has the ability to interfere with their own growth." ~Fritz Pearls With the ability to direct our own growth, and realising this, humans are the only creatures on the planet capable of evolving while still alive, rather than through generations. Typically evolution is thought of as purely the biological change of a species into something slightly different than that of its forebears (or ancestors). This isn’t always the case. With humans there is also mental, social, and psychological evolution. And we are capable of choosing the directions that we go in any of these realms. Sometimes it is only on an individual or small group basis. But that is what starts larger, societal and species-wide evolution. In being able to direct one’s own growth and development, a human being can choose to be more evolved and strive for becoming a better human being. This is commonly called “personal growth”. On a wider scale a group of individuals can choose to follow a certain social path – hopefully they will choose one that is better for the human race over all. This is called “social development” or “civilization”. As a species we are still in our infancy. And we are still the most intelligent and dominant beings on this planet. It gives us great power and therefore great responsibility. And few of us are willing or understanding of that responsibility. Granted, that responsibility starts within. That means that each person is primarily responsible for his (or her) own well being and growth. We have incredible mental capacity. We can use our mental capacity for responsible action. Or we can choose to be like children or animals. Most people choose the latter. And they don’t even understand the choice, because they choose not to allow themselves to be aware of what is around them. We are largely creatures of our conditions – and only with the opportunity for growth will we begin to understand it, thus begin to seek it. And that is why certain societies in the world dominate over others in social development. They have had the opportunities for a much larger part of their history than others. That is an important understanding, because only with challenging belief systems – social, political, religious, economic, and so forth – will we as a species be able to evolve for the betterment of all humanity. It is the strong connection to any particular belief system that most often stands in the way of personal growth and human evolution. We must, therefore, take responsibility for critical thought and analysis of everything we see around us in order to evolve as individuals. Human evolution has become a personal thing. Each person is now responsible for his own growth. And through this we can make a better planet and a better society for all! Similar site: http://www.thevenusproject.com
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Written by Johanus Haidner
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Tuesday, 15 September 2009 14:43 |
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What Silence Can Do... Have you ever just sat in a room and listened to all of the noises that are going on all around us every day? Try doing that at work for just 30 seconds. Hear what each different noise that is there really is caused by. Do it outdoors. And notice the amazing difference. Then try it again at home, just during a normal Saturday afternoon or after dinner when everyone is "doing their thing." What did you notice in each instance? How does each of them make you feel? In our society we have learned to fill up the silences around us with whatever noise is available. Many people cannot be in a house alone without the television or radio blasting - simply to make them feel less alone. They don't want to be aware of themselves and the lack of others around them. Yet, the serenity and power offered by a silent environment can be refreshing! Have you ever noticed
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Last Updated on Tuesday, 15 September 2009 15:11 |
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